Edition 2018

A Better Man

On a hot summer night, an 18-year-old girl runs away from home and through the streets of her city fearing for her life. Her name is Attiya Khan and she is escaping from Steve, her boyfriend, who has been abusing her for two years.

Twenty-two years later, Attiya asks Steve to meet her, because she wants to know how he remembers the relationship and whether he is willing to take responsibility for his violent actions. Attiya decides to film this first encounter with the ex-partner who abused her.
That emotionally raw meeting marks a new beginning in Attiya’s recovery, as well as an important starting point for Steve. For the first time, he speaks about the abuse and opens up the cracks that let him deal with the past.

Without having to forgive and without justifying the terrible abuse, A Better Man argues for what is known as restorative justice, in which victim and aggressor collectively look for the best resolution of the conflict. In this case, Attiya’s emotional wellbeing depends on her aggressor acknowledging that he was wrong.

A brave and necessary production by actress and filmmaker Sarah Polley that takes on a new paradigm for the prevention of gender violence.

Theme:

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Attiya Khan

Attiya is a Toronto-based feminist, intimate partner violence survivor, and long-time advocate and counselor for abused women and children. Attiya conceived the idea for A Better Man in 2012, drawing on her personal and professional experience with intimate partner violence. Attiya has worked in women’s shelters in Canada and the United States, including running the Child and Youth Services Program at Transition House in Cambridge, Massachusetts. She also worked at YWCA Toronto, supporting the communications and advocacy team, managing a training program on crisis intervention, and administering the December 6th Fund, which offers interest-free loans to women fleeing domestic violence. As a writer, activist, and speaker, she has presented at numerous events and conferences related to domestic violence. Together with her family, she recently co-founded a YWCA Toronto scholarship program for domestic violence survivors.

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Lawrence Jackman

Lawarence is a Toronto-based filmmaker. Over the past 15 years, he has worked on many award-winning films, focusing primarily on independent documentaries and dramas. He often works as an editorial consultant and has a long-standing association with the NFB in this role. Jackman has experience working at critical stages to creatively and structurally bring films to completion. Both as an editor and a director, he is interested in creative storytelling and pushing genre boundaries. In 2011, he directed How Does It Feel, a documentary musical about the importance of creative fulfillment that tells the story of a singer with cerebral palsy.

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Technical details

Year:

2017

Credits

Direction
Attiya Khan i Lawrence Jackman
Executive Production
Sarah Polley, Janice Dawe, Kathy Avrich-Johnson, Anita Lee, Jane Jankovic
Distribution
DocsBarcelona Distribution
Production
Christine Kleckner, Justine Pimlott

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