A Better Man
On a hot summer night, an 18-year-old girl runs away from home and through the streets of her city fearing for her life. Her name is Attiya Khan and she is escaping from Steve, her boyfriend, who has been abusing her for two years.
Twenty-two years later, Attiya asks Steve to meet her, because she wants to know how he remembers the relationship and whether he is willing to take responsibility for his violent actions. Attiya decides to film this first encounter with the ex-partner who abused her.
That emotionally raw meeting marks a new beginning in Attiya’s recovery, as well as an important starting point for Steve. For the first time, he speaks about the abuse and opens up the cracks that let him deal with the past.
Without having to forgive and without justifying the terrible abuse, A Better Man argues for what is known as restorative justice, in which victim and aggressor collectively look for the best resolution of the conflict. In this case, Attiya’s emotional wellbeing depends on her aggressor acknowledging that he was wrong.
A brave and necessary production by actress and filmmaker Sarah Polley that takes on a new paradigm for the prevention of gender violence.
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